Finding Happiness While Dealing with Divorce
It’s almost impossible to imagine a happy future when you’re going through a divorce. Many emotions storm through your body, happiness is typically not one of them. Divorce is lonely, sad, hurtful, disruptive-feelings not typically associated with happiness. Just when you need to make clear-headed, rational decisions, your brain is in fight or flight mode making that next to impossible.
Research shows that only 25% of success in the workplace is predicted by IQ, 75% is your optimism level. The same parallel can be drawn in your personal life. If you see your marriage as a failure, only finding the negatives that have resulted from your divorce, you’re chance of moving forward with a happier future decreases significantly: “it’s the lense through which your brain views the world that shapes your reality and if we can change the lense, … we change your happiness.”1 If you can change the way you view divorce and your situation, you can change the way you feel and the ultimate outcome of your life.
I consistently hear about how the following activities, done regularly, have a positive impact on feelings of happiness and fulfillment: being mindful, generous and grateful and recording your personal accomplishments.
Here are some simple ways you too can find some happiness in divorce:
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2. Be generous with your time, money, whatever you can. There are some great Ted talks about generosity and happiness.
3. Start a gratitude journal. Try writing at least 3 different things you are grateful for every day.
4. Document your daily accomplishments, no matter how small. Journaling about 1 positive thing helps you relive it.
Adding a moment or two of positive emotions to your day will surely pave your path of healing from your divorce.
1. Shawn Achor-“The Happiness Advantage: Linking Positive Brains to Performance”
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