Your Expert Divorce Coach & Advisor

Divorce is one of the most stressful life events. In the midst of enourmous emotional overwhelm, you’re being asked to complete mounds of paperwork, navigate your finances and manage your job and family. There are so many things to do and understand, and you’re being asked to make decisions with longterm consequences when you can barely remember what day it is. 

We’ll start with a Clarity Session. In that session, we’ll create a roadmap of what may happen. I’ll explain what the different processes look like, how the system works, what the documents mean. I’ll work side by side with you to complete all the necessary paperwork and explain all the different legal pieces that your lawyer tells you. We’ll also talk about what you’re experiencing emotionally so you don’t feel like you’re all alone.

Good Matrimonial Attorneys are compassionate. They want you to feel safe and heard, and they also want to practice law. That’s why they went into that side of the divorce business. Using your lawyer as your go-to person for all things divorce may muddy the picture. Rather than spending time on the important legal aspects of your case, they will be trying to weed through all the information you’re throwing at them.

Did you know that attorneys bill in 6 to10 minute increments? Every time you reach out it costs you money!!

I help you get clear on what you need to do. We’ll organize your thoughts and have weekly action plans. You’ll be able to provide your attorney with exactly what he or she needs. We’ll spend time on pre-legal work so you don’t need to spend that time with your attorney. You’ll understand what’s ahead so there won’t be any surprises (at least from your side) when you have to go to court or go to a meeting with your attorney like a deposition.

Did you handle the family finances when you were married? Do you know how much you spend? How much will you need to live post-divorce? Are there complex assets that you have no idea about? Or perhaps you have some financial knowledge, yet you can’t seem to translate it to your Statement of Net Worth. More importantly, how can you negotiate a settlement if you don’t know what you need? It’s really frightening and stressful to face the fact that you will solely be in charge of your own financial well-being.

I want you to understand the money so you won’t be afraid. I don’t expect you to become an investor of the year, but you do need to know how to manage your finances post-divorce. I’ll help you complete your financial documents. We’ll find the right Financial professionals for support. You’ll know what questions you should be asking so that no one takes advantage of your lack of knowledge.

When your spouse is being impossible, your children are distraught,  and your feeling emotionally wrecked,you may make decisions in haste that cost you dearly down the road. 

We’ll have regular check-ins where I’ll help you keep track of all the moving parts. If you have too many things to do, I’ll help you prioritize so you can be more efficient.

We’ll set goals and action steps. We’ll strengthen your communication skills with your attorney, spouse, family and friends.

I’ll be the calming voice in the midst of your divorce storm. We’ll make sure you feel confident, educated and organized.